Someone once posed the question to me:
"What kind of Man are you?"
A Man’s man? Woman’s Man? Or your own Man?
This lead me to examine myself and my environment as a Psychic curious about the energies at play - how I interacted, or reacted, in situations. And how others did.
This question is of particular importance, as more and more Men are starting to access their Feminine side. As more and more men come with it 'turned on'. Irrespective of Sexual Orientation. I suspect the same is happening to Women and their Masculine side. A Universe seeking balance perhaps.
A Man’s Man Often Maleness is seen same as manly. ?As in what a ?'real man'? does. Some sort of weird 'conventional' wisdom which some men have agreed upon and abide by ?religiously.? It paints certain convincing pictures of who a real man is and not. Pictures of reality shaped by beliefs. Both created and compounded by societal, family and cultural consensus. Pictures, that boxes in what a Man is, what a man does and not. But bad news for Men who are different (from those accepted norms). All lies, for a Man who is Not those and left to fight a frustrating uphill battle on the road to personal autonomy. But consider this from a Spiritual (or Energetic) perspective.
Maleness defined Maleness defined from an Energy Worker’s perspective is a Man’s ability to access intelligence, hence wisdom unique to his Male body. Or accessing his unique “Male Energy”. Male Energy flows from a place close to the Root Chakra along a channel up his body along the spine to his head. It has a certain quality and color to it.
If you are curious, find a quiet place, sit down, disconnect from outside, focus inwards and... ask to see the color (represented by the vibration) for your Male energy. You could take it a step further ask - 'How much of this Energy or Color(s) are uniquely mine and mine only?"
This Male Energy unique to a man and different from other men. It defines how he expresses his version of Maleness. If you start to consider this idea, the reflex of boxing Men into checklist of stereotypes, starts to look silly. The Sensitive Male A Male body vibrates at about 40Hz and Woman’s energy at about 120Hz. A pregnant woman’s body vibrates at around 240Hz. She is creating life. And yes, she is not crazy. All those emotions amplified through a heightened state. Consider that Men and Women have both Masculine and Feminine energy channels running through their body. The bump in energy for Women comes from a powerful creative force called the “baby making machinery". This sits close to the 2nd Chakra/Sacral Chakra.
A “sensitive” male, can defined as one sensitive to Energy. Perhaps more so than his peers. Energy or “impressions” he gets of his environment and people he interacts with. “Thoughts” and “Emotions”. Both his and others. Sensitivity from that view is Awareness. But being Sensitive is not same as being swept up in it and not able to discern what is ours and not ours. Often Men (or women) can become product of what they Sense. As opposed to operating from alignment with their wisdom. Sensitive Men can run higher degree of Feminine energy.
This is starting to become less uncommon with more and more Men embodying the Feminine energy expressed by our planet. But a Man “running” or accessing his Feminine energy is not the as same him running a Woman’s feminine energy through his 40HZ body. One is a 40Hz body another 120Hz body. At times the Sensitive Male finds himself 'rubbed off' or physically "matched into" the high vibrating female energy of a Woman. For such men these situation starts to throw them into a state of anxiety and hysteria. Simple their bodies are just not made to handle this much energy.
The "complex" nature of the Female energy makes the Man crave for Simplicity. That's when the Man decides to retreat abruptly. Making a run for his cave while leaving the feeling woman baffled and sometimes feeling abandoned. Neither of them wrong. Just mechanics of different bodies. Men and Women are equal but not the same.
A Woman’s Man A Woman’s man is the one who puts his opinion of himself (self image) below the opinion of women he surrounds himself with. His acute sensitivity to their opinion and letting it ‘rub off’ on him. There is a Mother, sister, girlfriend, daughter to please. Or Women he had history with. Starting with his first female experience, his Mother. No victims here. Just mutual agreement. Both parties have some incentive to playing their respective parts. A Man starts to become his own man when he starts to be a result of alignment with his own wisdom. Or information from his Male body or accessing his “Male Energy” (flows from a place close to the Root Chakra). A state of being that says “yes I’m sensitive to opinion of women and others around me but I’m don’t necessarily make decisions from it” Taking time to notice, is a powerful tool If spiritual pursuit was defined as search for one’s own Truth. The subset, from a Male perspective maybe find a Man asking How much of my unique Male information/wisdom do I access?” The first step to all of this is maybe Inward Awareness. A tool, using which you can (at least sometimes) manage to not be swept up by yours or others force. Then notice what is happening inside. As opposed to wandering out there and get fixated on look at what they are doing to me. However a warning. The popular thing to do for seekers-of-answers is to use this self-observation (or Awareness) against themselves. Using the information to beating themselves up for what should have been a neutral feedback for self-improvement. Armed with Inward Awareness one starts to peel layer after layer of “what-I’m-not” and start to get aligned with “who-I-truly-I'm”.
Mikki is an Intuitive Reader, Spiritual Healer, Teacher and iPhone App developer. Every Friday he offers free 15min Reading or Healing for first 5 requests via Skype, Phone (I can call US and Europe) or email. Please request from mikkimann.weebly.com
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